Guestbook

this guestbook has been shut down due to vastly more spam than I can police. There's been few enough real entries lately that it's not really worth it to replace the software with something that protects against advertising. Send me email if you really want to send me feedback.

Great site, sev, Mind if I give it a blog-mention? (Wanted to check first.) http://www.bigmouthindeedstrikesagain.blogspot.com
Amy Guth <amytguth@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, March 11, 2006 at 11:44:10 (PST)

lol wow - silly me for coming to praise a developer of a high quality leather site, and I don't even have a poker site to spam! Anyway, this is a good resource you've put together, and I'll toss my link in the ring just for giggles :) http://www.puretnt.com BDSM jewelry
Kenya <theproperty@puretnt.com>
- Wednesday, February 15, 2006 at 19:23:13 (PST)

Hi, I found your website really interesting & liberating. I am currently trying to decide for myself what I want in life - one relationship, more than one relationship, relationships with men/women/either, and it's all very confusing... I'm always hearing about how we "ought to be this or ought to be that", that there's only one way to live (prefereably straight and monogomous, or if you can't help it then gay & monogomous. But "this isn't something you can choose, bisexuality is not an option"). It's really refreshing to have affirmation that you can just do what feels right for you and the people close to you, be yourself, as long as it's all done honestly & openly. Anyway, thanks for a great website.
anon <anon>
- Thursday, November 17, 2005 at 18:17:27 (PST)

Beautiful daughter, I check your website frequently, but I don't think I've posted here since 1997! Where do the years go? You are "wonder-full," loving, gorgeous, generous, and your dazzling smile hasn't changed since you first flashed it at me in 1973. I love you. Mom (Hey, World! Sev's my daughter!)
Mom <bellesgranita2@sbcglobal.net>
- Sunday, November 06, 2005 at 09:54:44 (PST)

Very interesting, nice to see someone taking time to create such an indepth personal site.
Ugin
- Sunday, October 23, 2005 at 08:46:08 (PDT)

In my semi-regular Googling for things that reference me, this page came up -- check this out: foo. fwibble. totsiens. Dossy - Saturday, October 12, 1996 at 22:20:27 (PDT) How have you been, Sev?! Drop me an email or something. Eerie coincidence -- the name I gave to my Blogger blog is also "insert witty comment here" -- ha. Great minds think alike, or fools rarely differ. :-) http://dossy.org/
Dossy <dossy@panoptic.com>
- Saturday, June 11, 2005 at 21:35:43 (PDT)

Hi, I was just neighborhood and found your site. I wanted to compliment you on your work. I myself do photography and found what you have done is very inspiring. I will be going to iceland soon so hope to have a nice collection of my adventures to add to my site. Wynne Davies (www.welshlens.co.uk)
Wynne Davies <wynne@welshlens.co.uk>
- Wednesday, June 08, 2005 at 07:31:35 (PDT)

I made up this word Sev and it brought me to you. Strange, but hi. DC
DC <prjct_records@yahoo.com>
- Friday, May 06, 2005 at 20:37:07 (PDT)

Hello, site here is quite nice. I suppor the rights of gays and lesbians. P.S. Robert Baral is an asshole. I've comeacross him before as well.
Svetlana
- Wednesday, February 16, 2005 at 08:36:50 (PST)

I dated a woman a few years ago who gave me a LOT of crap about the whole "bi privilege" thing, mostly because she was angry and hurt that our relationship didn't work out (I was still figuring myself out, and dealing with a lot of familial pressures to either be gay or straight; they couldn't understand anything else). I've met a number of very "biphobic" or bi-bitter gays, and it's frustrating because I'm always ready to come to their defense, be it socially or politically. Curiously, my straight friends are much more understanding and respectful listeners than my gay friends have been. Anyone have similar experiences?
H
- Thursday, January 13, 2005 at 19:50:47 (PST)

all you gays and lesbians you are all mad and i think you are all crazy the wrath of the lord will come upon you , read your bible and you will know what i mean stupid idots.
mugu muhammed sahri <mugu_ma_sah@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, December 12, 2004 at 03:12:00 (PST)

sev responds: My higher power created me this way. Did yours create you this hateful, or did you develop that on your own?

Your site was useful for me. I am just learning about polyamory now, and I seem to be the only one I know who's ever heard of it. I think it is important to accept people's lifestyle as their own personal choice. This survey is part of my independent study project on polyamory. The purpose is to get a better understanding of the lifestyle and those who practice it. I am eager to get a better perspective, and what better opinions then from those who are poly. If you are poly I would appreciate your time and consideration in filling it out http://www.zoomerang.com/survey.zgi?p=WEB2H2QP8Y
Amanda <littleblondprincess@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, May 18, 2004 at 08:29:51 (PDT)

Merry Meet Sev, Took another look at your website, just love the pics and there's so much stuff here, it's fabulous, the problem is, where to look next? Your site is so exquisite and highly eclectic but I'd have to spend hours on it so I'll be back soon I hope. Meanwhile, keep it up, and good luck and HEY! WOW! Bright Blessings from grondwitch!
grondwitch <grondwitch.5@wanadoo.fr>
- Tuesday, May 04, 2004 at 08:47:25 (PDT)

Fascinating and thought-provoking topic.
Ron Reynolds <chiefexec@astroboymail.com>
- Monday, April 26, 2004 at 20:57:45 (PDT)

Hi guys. Where do i get script to create guestbook like yours?
Needles <needle@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, April 25, 2004 at 21:44:34 (PDT)

Blessed Be, Hey! what a terrific website, I love youre poems and pros especially the magnetic ones. Keep it up, you're doing swell, 'haven't seen everything yet but I'll surely be back! Brightest blessings, - grondwitch!
grondwitch <grondwitch.5@wanandoo.fr>
- Saturday, April 10, 2004 at 06:34:59 (PDT)

Hi. I have a cat named Sev, and I was wondering what the name means, if anything. I've heard a few explanations. Someone said it's Latin for 'freedom' or 'frisky'. This would make sense, considering the girl who named her (although the cat herself doesn't really exhibit these traits). Do you agree with that? Does it mean anything else? Thanks in advance for any help. P.S. I searched your site for an answer, but I couldn't find any.
Steven
- Friday, April 09, 2004 at 23:29:28 (PDT)

Can I just say that Americans don't have a clue about us Brits. We ran the country and spoke English before them. I was reading a news report the other day and I was shocked to read a report that said all English are fat, stupid and soft. I mean we don't say things about Americans basically because we are not that sad and we don't care! Yes England is falling apart in terms of our leadership problems but as a nation we are hard working, honest and proud people. Even if this message is deleted I just wanted to get it off my chest. It's pooring down with rain now and yet i'm going outside to do some building work because nothing gets me down. Thankyou...
England <yer2002@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, April 04, 2004 at 07:32:18 (PDT)

sev responds: well, I'm glad you got that off your chest, then. I'm not sure why you thought my site was the right place for your strange and inaccurate generalizations, but unless somebody tells me this post is inaccurately attributed to someone who didn't write it, I'll leave it here for all to see.

Where are my posts???
cove <ceive@mail.com>
- Friday, March 05, 2004 at 13:17:42 (PST)

sev responds: I don't know. Who are you? Do you think you posted here in the past? If you posted an advertisement, it's gone; I delete advertisements.

[yet another advertisement for a swingers' club deleted. I don't have anything against swingers' clubs, but please do not advertise them in my guestbook. thank you.]

great diary... I particularly liked your feminism section and the stuff on polyamorgy and sexuality. I'm sick of people who think that equality means being the same (and who use that as an excuse to say that equality is thus somehow unreasonable or impossible, because we're not all the same as each other...!); and sick of people who think that monogamy is the only healthy norm (when in most cases it seems to be based on jealousy, which is hardly the most healthy way to relate to people!). So, just wanted to say, great work!
ghostgirl
- Saturday, February 28, 2004 at 15:29:53 (PST)

sev responds: While I don't at all agree that jealousy is only the purview of monogamy, I'm glad you liked my site.

just recently come to the conclusion that i'm a bi male - however, have no idea how to express or explore this wonderful feeling - have to be very discreet because of my work - any suggestions?
ron <bluegray550@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, January 27, 2004 at 04:10:51 (PST)

53 y/o KansasCity area Dad is thankful there are other thinkin folks on the net. Keep up the good work.........
blueriver <blueriver6@juno.com>
- Wednesday, November 05, 2003 at 18:15:52 (PST)

[ personal ads snipped. sorry, folks; there are better venues for personal ads. ]

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Marilyn <diggers@wosib.org>
- Saturday, August 09, 2003 at 17:45:33 (PDT)

sev responds: Thank you for your kind invitiation. However, WOSIB discriminates against women who participate in S/M; therefore, not only do I not wish to be part of your group, I'm explicitly prohibited from joining anyway!

You homo's are sick people! Don't you know you're all going to die of AIDS and then burn in hell forever???
Blowemaway
- Thursday, July 31, 2003 at 11:57:42 (PDT)

sev responds: Silly homophobe. Don't you know that my higher power loves me just the way I am? What are they teaching you down in Millersville University, anyway? By the way, I'm afraid I can't at all respect someone who fails to demonstrate basic proper apostrophe use.

Just wanted to say thanks (again!) for being both supportinve and critical in my baptism of fire on soc.bi - of all the things I love I love learning the most, and you helped turn what could've just been a horrible situation into a renewed quest for knowledge and understanding. If I can ever repay the favour, let me know.
SamBC <s.barnett-cormack@lancaster.ac.uk>
- Friday, July 18, 2003 at 19:49:14 (PDT)

i had a desire for another guy since as far back as i can remember. i never acted upon it during school years. after college i did and fun it was. i love women, and i admit i love men, too. too bad society is so closed minded that i cannot be open about it. yeah, wife knows, she doesnt want to know anymore, yet she sleeps with girls...whatever
mark <warmjetter03@aol.com>
- Friday, July 18, 2003 at 04:13:15 (PDT)

hi.. just wandered in coutesy zen...just out of curiosity, and with a very low opinion...but must confess the site definitely has material worth pondering... do drop a line or visit http://www.geocities.com/spandiath4/dejavu2.html when in the mood.... ta for now..
Shanks <Eugene2Pndth@netscape.net>
- Sunday, July 06, 2003 at 03:34:13 (PDT)

We are a poly couple, and it's nice to see a site that is open to it. being a bi-poly-couple could make life hard if you allowed it too, but don't let life's little "perks" upset you. i have a motto if it feels right then it is right. trust your heart.. thanks for trusting your's hun.. beautiful words to a non understanding world, but there are a few of us kicking around out here *winks* Thanks and Brightest Blessings all. W and E
Wendy and Edward <evilangel1980@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, April 22, 2003 at 13:32:52 (PDT)

Excellent stuff, Sev! I'm racking my brain, though, trying to figure out where I know your name from! Thanks for the site - I'm sure I'll be back. Cheers . . . Kelly
Kelly <stubbornkelly@mindspring.com>
- Monday, April 21, 2003 at 14:48:47 (PDT)

It was late one night and I wanted to feed my vanity so I looked up my name and found this site. My vanity went away full and wisdom dids't creep in also. Thanks for the energy.
Sev (wandering male) <lodencress419@yahoo.com>
- Wednesday, April 16, 2003 at 05:42:34 (PDT)

*kisskiss* i love you, sweetie! being a sinful, evil queer is much more fun in your company. :) xoxo, your red-headded girlfriend
molly
- Friday, March 28, 2003 at 16:33:28 (PST)

I am a 35 yrold bi- female Just recently came out which caused my family to bail on me I am engaged to a wonderful man who is str but ...Loves me for who i am years i have spent telling half truths and not being alone with females because i didnt want to over step my lines and it was hard to not say the things i thought..One day I found that I needed to tell eveyone the truth I came out to my family friends and even my boss..I now walk around with few friends and no family they say it is just a sex thing and i am too wild..I raise seven children three mine four his and they are all aware that mom is BI not gay but BI witch has been hard for them also kids and parents i have found can be cruel....If peole would stop telling me it is ok to be gay and that i should not marry because i don't know what i am i think it would be easier for me ..They do not know I love my soon to be husband I just didn't want to marry him with some big secert in the way I wanted him to know everything and he loves me just the same and maybe more so as hard as it is I am out to the world and I never hide that fact from anyone It is hard and in rural USA they say there is no place for pepole like me and they maybe right or so I thought until i found this site.All new rules come into play when you are dealing with schools and children and i have been asked about this even from teachers and Have yet to say that I am not just to make it easy on them yes I am BI and I am proud of who I am all those peole who hide who they are be it gay or Str or trans or whatever I have almost lost my kids to their str father who did not know and it caused our devorce and i have lost some very dear friends so i agree with what is written here If you can't be honest with the world then you have lost your rights ... I do however wish that pepole in my area would extent a hand to those of us that are the same and offer me to a support group or a meeting to talk with others like myslef but as of yet i have only found pick up bars and gay bars(where i might add i am not welcome I dnot understand why i am not tryiong to pick uo anyone I am trying to be me)so if there are any gruoups in Northeast pa that would be nice enough to tell me where to find these groups PLEASE HELP
Lori
- Saturday, March 15, 2003 at 10:04:21 (PST)

sev responds: Please contact BiUnity. They're the best-known bisexual group in Pennsylvania; they may be able to hook you up with a support group in your area. Good luck!

today I deleted more spam from Robert Baral, who thinks that a bisexual jewish transhumanist neopagan's guestbook is somehow a good place to preach fundamentalist christianity. Silly Robert. (february 27, 2003...and again on March 12, 2003...and again on March 25, 2003)

I followed the link from Molly's site and started to read about this intriguing Sev woman.. Your explanation about labels interested me, since my way of dealing with my own bisexuality and fear/distrust of monogamous relationships made me forcibly reject *all* labels, but what you said made a lot of sense. You seem like a smart lady :)and I'm glad I found your site.
etherea
- Friday, February 21, 2003 at 12:58:24 (PST)

Guess what else about Robert Baral? He's a white-separatist, anti-Semitic, neo-Nazi! Read here: http://www.stormfront.org/threads/topic/30677.html (Robert hates it when I let people in on his "dirty little secret", which is why I continue doing it!) :-)
Fundyfighter
- Saturday, February 08, 2003 at 09:04:23 (PST)

[ original message deleted by poster's request ]

sev responds: woo! I haven't gotten a comment from a fundie in *ages*. fun!

Sev, Very well done could'nt of done this better.Keep up such wonderful work.
FoxFire8869 <FOXFIRE8869@AOL.COM>
- Friday, January 31, 2003 at 07:10:56 (PST)

UMU IGBO UMU IGBO UMU IGBO abeg hooooooooooooooo comot for me hoooooooooooo thank u bye oh i miss you
Snoop Doggy Don <Snoop@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, January 21, 2003 at 18:13:49 (PST)

sev responds: gosh, I hope that wasn't supposed to make sense...

Many wonderful greeting from Munich, Germany!! I am very happy to have found your site, and was quite interested in many of the "stories" here. I am a "coming-in" bisexual; I have lived the last 10 years as a gay male, but in the past several months find myself becoming more and more attracted to women. Would you, or anyone reading this site, have any tips for a young, attractive and sporty man, looking to have his first sexual experience with a woman? Or perhaps a woman and a man?? I know, it may sound a bit strange, but this is how my "sexual story" is developing...and I seem to have a great deal of anxiety when it comes to the "final moment" with a woman. Also questions such as, what do women really want? Will I be able to satisfy her needs? Most bi-videos show a lot of f***ing but not so much tenderness and love between all of the partners. I personally believe that this is very important, no matter what type of relationship one is in. I would appreciate your comments, if you (all) happen to have the chance...Lots of Love, Happiness, and X-Mas presents for all!! Michael
Michael <suessesherz1971@yahoo.de>
- Wednesday, December 11, 2002 at 12:14:17 (PST)

Wow! Sev, your peotry moves me and gets my blood pumping! You are extremely articulate....telling it like it is! Cudos to you, and all Womyn like us who aren't afraid to use our tongues and pens to express ourselves! I'll be back to get another " fix"of your writing!
Akasha <rottiefreaks@primus.ca>
- Sunday, October 20, 2002 at 09:01:36 (PDT)

Anyone hear anymore of gay network coming soon on cable? Isn't QAF a great show?
BiRich <rmaies@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, August 01, 2002 at 17:04:14 (PDT)

I had a panic attack today. Im a 27 year old bi female. Just got engaged to a straight male. I'm scared - but i feel a little bit better by knowing people like you are out there. Thank you.
Daisy
- Thursday, July 25, 2002 at 14:59:12 (PDT)

I'm a bit kinky yet want to know from others of their opinion; if I enjoy swallowing sperm.... doesn't this make me gay? I'm a married 42 year old, am out to my wife only. She knew I was bi from the beginning of our marriage yet doesn't participate in bi sex activities. I always felt myself a Kinsey 3.
Richard Maies <rmaies@yahoo.com>
- Monday, July 22, 2002 at 17:16:46 (PDT)

great site
Lisa S. <scottnlisa20002000@yahoo.com>
- Thursday, June 13, 2002 at 02:25:16 (PDT)

A spoken word to ease the pain. A quiet world is where i'm forced to dwell.
DDR
- Sunday, June 09, 2002 at 13:04:11 (PDT)

Oops, got my terminology mixed up below! I meant, it's hard to reconcile my need for MOTSS attention with the MOTOS lifestyle that I've chosen.
Mark
- Sunday, May 19, 2002 at 08:12:13 (PDT)

As someone who's recognized his besexuality since the age of 21, but who only recently came out to his wife at his current age of 32, I find your essays and thoughts on bisexuality refreshing and enthralling. It's hard to reconcile the need for MOTOS attention with the MOTSS lifestyle that I've chosen, but then life is a battle on several fronts. Since coming out to my significant other, I've been obsessed with the topic of bisexuality, but I've learned two things (1) It's nothing to be ashamed of, it's as part of one's individual nature as liking a certain color or taste, and (2) Bi's are as capable of monogamy and committment to a PERSON rather than a gender as any memeber of the het or homo communities. I'm still dealing with my fascination with the subject, but your thoughts on the matter are awesome.
Mark
- Saturday, May 18, 2002 at 16:22:21 (PDT)

I love your site,thanks for your great insight to being bi,i am a bi guy since i was 12 and i love it ,but can't seem to find the right way to come out,you are helping,,THANKS!!!!! Good Luck on a great site!!!!
J.C. <jboy947@yahoo.com>
- Sunday, May 12, 2002 at 05:57:58 (PDT)

Wow! What a great site! Once again I'm awed by a neat person who can do stuff that I can't .. lol. Take good care :))
Sandy
- Saturday, April 27, 2002 at 16:51:18 (PDT)

I wondered if your site would still be up--I'm glad to see it is! I remember coming to your site...five years ago? When I was in lateish high school, and just coming out to myself. Your site was incredibly valuable to me then. And now that I'm not too scared to be a big stompin' dyke in public--or to write about The Queer in internet guestbooks--I just wanted to say thanks. Your site is incredibly rich. Keep up the good work.
Sarah <sld24@cornell.edu>
- Wednesday, April 03, 2002 at 21:03:47 (PST)

I LUV ALEX!!!!!!!!!!! AND MY MUMMY!!!!!!!!! and kirsten is REALLY COOL!!!!!! SO IS ELISE!!!!
april <billabong_babe17@hotmail.com>
- Thursday, March 07, 2002 at 02:10:16 (PST)

Nice site. I like the color scheme. Tasteful. Best wishes in all you do (and you, too, Alex!)
mj <michael@firewing.org>
- Wednesday, March 06, 2002 at 12:48:40 (PST)

Nice site. I'm an in-the-closet, inexperienced bi, but looking for that right time to get out.
Andrew
- Tuesday, February 19, 2002 at 11:02:09 (PST)

I have visited your site in the past and lately it seems that your site has grown both in popularity and in content. I must admit that I have observed your site from a distance; checking back here and again from time to time. Keep up the good work, and if you have a moment, stop by my website. I've got tons going on and more good stuff every day.
Tom <tom@tomslatin.com>
- Monday, February 18, 2002 at 17:25:27 (PST)

I love your site!!!
Melissa Anderson <raven2298_0@hotmail.com>
- Friday, January 18, 2002 at 23:40:31 (PST)

It was quite a trip to find your site. Thanks!
Tina <justawave@hotmail.com>
- Saturday, November 10, 2001 at 11:46:14 (PST)

Sev, I love the redesign!!! Keep it comming!
Alex <alex@rosalez.org>
- Sunday, November 04, 2001 at 18:38:21 (PST)

Your web page is very instructive and well done aesthetically. Congratulations on the page and what must be a fascinating life - you must be a treasure to your friends.
John <jm3068@anthro.utah.edu>
- Monday, October 22, 2001 at 17:26:56 (PDT)

Just passing through. Great website, I was impressed. Good luck in everything you do.
Barbie <selestial@msn.com>
- Friday, October 19, 2001 at 22:10:28 (PDT)

Hi Sev, What a teriffic site. Poetry, kink and Unix. Who could ask for more? I loved the pics too. You are certainly a fascinating person. Hug's, Lyn
Lyn <lyn261@juno.com>
- Sunday, October 14, 2001 at 23:00:05 (PDT)

you love only yourself.
- <-@->
- Thursday, August 16, 2001 at 14:53:26 (PDT)

sev responds: Oh, please. If you're going to be posting anonymous complaints to my guestbook, can't you at least say something clever? I'm nearly ready to have this page log hostname, so every visitor can see exactly which .edu you came from...

Best wishes and good luck on a fine site. I bid you peace.. Regards, veralsi
veralsi <veralsi@hotmail.com>
- Sunday, July 22, 2001 at 13:31:16 (PDT)

Yes, Molly is right, you're definitely *very* cool, and most welcome to crash at my place in the Castro if need be. =)
Mik <spam@purpletrafficlight.net>
- Thursday, July 05, 2001 at 15:56:23 (PDT)

My God ! Geekiness and Art ! Then again, Creation, even if binary, is often a labor of love. You have a most-cool sig for newsgroups. :) (heh heh, "kill -9" yeah.)
Barry <asm65816@aol.com>
- Wednesday, June 27, 2001 at 10:27:05 (PDT)

This page is AWESOME! You're VERY cute.
Thomas <tom@tomslatin.com>
- Saturday, June 02, 2001 at 09:22:51 (PDT)

i can't believe i haven't signed your guestbook until now. *smooch* you are smart and wonderful, my very beautiful, and very NotCute(tm) girlie. ;)
molly <zenslut@zenslut.com>
- Wednesday, May 30, 2001 at 15:19:46 (PDT)

Because smart foxes do their recon work, even if it's after the first date.
NBarnes <nbarnes@earthlink.net>
- Wednesday, May 16, 2001 at 22:45:32 (PDT)

your a sly foxy fuck bunny .
tung lov <tunglov4u@diaryland.com>
- Thursday, April 26, 2001 at 21:38:06 (PDT)

OMG! I typo-ed "the" into het! Augh! Nooooo! *shudder*
Julz <julz@byz.org>
- Thursday, April 19, 2001 at 19:54:11 (PDT)

Hi Sweetie :) *hugs* Was thinking about het old days in #bi and I had to pop in here and check up on things :) Hope you are well and life is still trating you good :) ..Julzie
Julz <julz@byz.org >
- Thursday, April 19, 2001 at 19:52:00 (PDT)

I just wanna say that I am glad that I am not the only one who is speaking outwardly in my community, I am a teen who is falling for a girl. Just to know that there are others, girls, guys, gays, lesbians, you are all over the globle, keep up the good work!!
Andrea <kandi_67_69@hotmail.com>
- Friday, April 13, 2001 at 11:41:47 (PDT)

Well, I just thought I would reach out to another sev. Hello
Sev <lodencress@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 10, 2001 at 12:07:00 (PDT)

I loved you website it is just cool.Not too much fact not to much shit. Just KOOL thanx, some of the things you said helped me.Much Love, *Peaches*
Peaches <ladybluewater1@hotmail.com>
- Tuesday, April 03, 2001 at 19:27:18 (PDT)

NEW TO PORTLAND OR. FROM N.Y. COOL SITE!!!!
JOHN <john12865@hotmail.com>
- Monday, March 12, 2001 at 20:39:58 (PST)

I just wanted to say that your web site is really great. You really spent a lot of time doing it and you should be proud because it is awesome.
Sarah <sarahmay1980@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, February 21, 2001 at 14:54:55 (PST)

I love your website. I came to it through reading your recommendation list on Amazon for polyamory. I then read your recommendations for Wild Women and order one of those you put on your list. There is something that really draws me to you. We seem to have a number of things in common and some of the same interest. I too live in Seattle and frequent the Wet Spot. I am poly, kinky, and bi. I would love to talk with you sometime and have our favorite drink, Coffee. Email me if you would care to have a cupa. Your smitten admirer, Dawn
Dawn <dfabian@uswest.net>
- Thursday, February 01, 2001 at 13:58:37 (PST)

Love your site! You have so much going for yourself. It's nice to see such quality work on the net!
Beryl <Beryl66@aol.com>
- Thursday, November 30, 2000 at 19:41:12 (PST)

Hi Sev - I enjoyed your website. I cruised in from the Seattle Poly site link. E-mail me ... would love to hear from you.
Dave <thumper_2@rocketmail.com>
- Monday, November 27, 2000 at 14:52:22 (PST)

"I've seen what I was and I know what I'll be, I've seen it all, there is no more to see." (Björk) Nice page. :) Stay beautiful.
Kat <never_again@antisocial.co.uk>
- Sunday, November 05, 2000 at 09:45:45 (PST)

New to the internet. My last girlfriend was Bi and it opened up a whole new world to me. I really enjoyed your site and the information it provides. Thank you very much. Calvin from South Bend, Indiana Ps. Looking for more Bi friends in Indiana and Michigan - emale me if interested!
Calvin Carpenter <Calvin0625@cs.com>
- Friday, October 27, 2000 at 05:37:59 (PDT)

Cheryl, I may have met you before, I'm not sure. I live in Seattle. I got married 7/30/00 and am now monogamous (formerly polyamorous) and bi. Anyway, I love your site!
Gloria Jackson-Nefertiti <queen_nefertiti@prodigy.net>
- Saturday, September 23, 2000 at 11:25:54 (PDT)

I pulled up your site expecting to see new "burning man" photos. Guess it's too soon. Let me know when you have them up. I read in the paper where it was a huge success. I love you unconditionally as always. Dad
Daddy <Dontrooskin@earthlink.net>
- Friday, September 08, 2000 at 17:55:56 (PDT)

Interesting site. I like your commentary on the potentially productive non-harmful use of labels.
QueerByChoice <qbc101@hotmail.com>
- Monday, July 24, 2000 at 00:05:44 (PDT)

I wanted to say thank you for clarifying many issues that I had, and clearing thing's up for me. I wish more people had that same attitude as not being gay nor straight.
Tiff <superbiker77@yahoo.com>
- Saturday, July 08, 2000 at 17:32:00 (PDT)

I typed "kinky poetry" into the search engine and found this site. I've been signing guestbooks like crazy to promote my boyfriend's alter ego's hilarious Create Uh Page but I respect you too much to subject you to such foolishness. Your poems are really, really good. I encourage you to submit your love poems to www.loveblender.com. I've been a "Blenderite" for the past two years. It's the only poetry site I've found that offers instant gratification. You submit a poem and it's posted on the Heart on Sleeve Corner. And there's a really positive creative community there. ...Love the "gift ideas" list! Too funny. I love colored fountain pens, too, and I'm also bigger on bottom and smaller on top. Oh, well. Richard Simmons can kiss my pleasantly plump ass.
Misti Velvet Rainwater <mnemosyne26@hotmail.com>
- Wednesday, June 07, 2000 at 11:01:48 (PDT)

hi i recently stumbled across your site, and i rather like your site.
andrew <ishtah@talkcity.com>
- Tuesday, June 06, 2000 at 01:30:08 (PDT)

Greetings! I've been bisexual all my life, I thought everyone was the same but that somewhere along the line you had to choose to be either straight or gay. I didnt think I had the wardrobe or political inclination to be gay but my hormones wouldnt let me be straight. It took me a long time to realise that I am bisexual, it's just the way I am, I cant choose to change that and society is the one with the problems. If the person who gave me this web address reads this, thank you again!
Louise
- Saturday, April 22, 2000 at 00:02:40 (PDT)

heya ya cutie, here's to many more geeky arguments over email! (raises a crappy martini in honour!)
CP Constantine <conrad@1211.net>
- Monday, January 17, 2000 at 12:53:44 (PST)

This is a beautiful site. I have recently "come out" to several friends about my bisexuality, and though they were supportive I needed some real, honest information from someone who truly understood. Thank you for providing me with that.
Sara
- Thursday, October 21, 1999 at 14:22:45 (PDT)

You are so incredibly complex and beautiful. Thank you so much for posting Yeat's poetry. They have always moved me. There is so much at your site. I need to spend more time to hear what you have to say.
emil <peace2009@aol.com>
- Wednesday, September 29, 1999 at 16:09:53 (PDT)

I love your style.
Richard Spear <rlspear@nasuinfo.og.jp>
- Monday, September 06, 1999 at 02:52:55 (PDT)

hi sev. great site. THE best on the web. peace.
jen <sjg2761@siena.edu>
- Saturday, June 19, 1999 at 23:29:12 (PDT)

you know, I used to think that being gay as great too. Then I lost my boyfriend, my friends and my self respect. my fiance taught me the way, and now i'm back on the straight and narrow and proud of it. Steph
Steph <SurvivDazi@aol.com>
- Monday, May 31, 1999 at 19:24:19 (PDT)

sev responds:

I'm not gay, I'm bi.
Do you really think your sexual orientation had anything to do with all that? How sad.

End of a long day, so sought to refresh my senses with a search on byzantium. I found your site and succeeded, and now to bed.
Graham Duncan <graham@byzantium.com>
- Wednesday, April 21, 1999 at 16:37:38 (PDT)

This is THE place. If there's someone's writings I can feel at home are yours. Thank you for making all of us part of one community to start growing worldwide. All my Love!
JC Andrews <andrews@mail.internet.com.mx>
- Friday, April 09, 1999 at 08:21:18 (PDT)

hey, neat... a cool page named after me (well not really, but that's ok) nifty little page here... warm fuzzies all over
SEV!!!!!! <twyztedone@yahoo.com>
- Tuesday, March 30, 1999 at 01:45:33 (PST)

Delightful pages. Refeshing, open, honest, no bullshit. Makes a change from all the crap on the internet. Nice to read the musings and essays, I tend to agree with 99% of what you say/express both on your pages and on soc.bi. I will continue to read your stuff, at least know knowing the gal behind the words a little better. Huggs Hunny XXX
Melissa BEE [HunnyBee] <melissab@ats.com.au>
- Thursday, March 11, 1999 at 23:21:13 (PST)

Beautiful site, nice content, intriguing personality. Thanks for sharing. ~VAP
Virigilian <apphillips@earthlink.net>
- Saturday, January 16, 1999 at 17:40:59 (PST)

gee_ your page just gives off all these cozy vibes_ s'nice! you remind me of SARK, (that's a compliment)if you haven't read her, DO! kinetic hugs from canada!
jenO <jnorriss@hotmail.com>
- Monday, November 30, 1998 at 11:12:55 (PST)

So, I finally got here thru your sig on the polylist. Very nice photos of you. Very interesting words. Ain't nuthin' sexier than a geek grrl...oh, you know that, don't you. ::smilin'::
Von <vonniern@vnet.net>
- Monday, November 02, 1998 at 18:36:16 (PST)

You are beautiful. You look happy. That is all that matters to me. I love you... I always will...
Jen
- Wednesday, September 02, 1998 at 16:17:55 (PDT)

Well, sev, as usual you can express yourself as elegantly as always. You have always had a capacity to embrace life in a monsterous bear hug and find the beauty that many take for granted. You inspire people to be embrace life with the same passion you possess. I wish you all the happiness I can :)
Paul <peden@mindsync.com>
- Friday, August 28, 1998 at 19:20:24 (PDT)

Yes, as you say, you are beautiful and sexy etc. So am I. You are an inspiration. <insert Krameristic body movement>. Aaah, ... life!
Roger
- Thursday, July 16, 1998 at 05:09:54 (PDT)

The pictures of you are beautiful. Hope all is well...
Vicki Kelliebrew <vkellieb@epri.com>
- Friday, July 10, 1998 at 09:34:51 (PDT)

Like the page, kid. You're as beautiful as I remember. See you soon. -P
Paul <pauly@icsi.berkeley.edu>
- Friday, June 19, 1998 at 15:06:33 (PDT)

Hi. I have recently discovered my bisexuality, and am lonely and confused. Please check out my website. I talk more about my experiences and thoughts there. Anyway, thanks for a great web page. If there is anyone who wants to correspond with me out there, feel free to write.
Sweet_Bird <Sweet_Bird@mailexcite.com>
- Thursday, June 04, 1998 at 15:51:26 (PDT)

Hi there. I just linked here from the bifem list. I am new to the list so this is all new to me. I would like to say hi. I read your poetry and I am so glad I joined this list even though i am new to thisl I like that there are other people out there who are open minded and like to speak their mind. Thanks for the wonderful experience. I have book marked your page so that I can come back often. See you around
kaye ryan <rkryan@arkansas.net>
- Monday, March 30, 1998 at 23:19:28 (PST)

It's about time someone understands!!! If there is any one who lives in Florida who lives near Titusville or Melbourne PLEASE E-mail me!!!
Samara <Ska-Punk@worldnet.att.net>
- Monday, March 30, 1998 at 13:23:32 (PST)

Awesome page! Keep up the good work!
Gina (aka WindWolf) <gpond@elmria.edu>
- Wednesday, March 11, 1998 at 16:41:11 (PST)

I love you sev!! I miss you sooo much...If you happen to read this...I just wanted to let you know that I LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jennifer Trooskin <jtrooski@baan.com>
- Wednesday, February 25, 1998 at 11:00:28 (PST)

Sometimes I get bumbed about the world...nothing makes sence. Everyone talks about building more prisons, building bigger cars, gated communities ...and then I run into people like you and my sky is blue again.
Adilko <adilko@aol.com>
- Monday, January 19, 1998 at 17:31:14 (PST)

Excellent site! very informative, concise, articulate info on so many of my favorite subjects! Your site is easy to navigate and fun to read... Be well, Jen
Jenmarie <borealis@swbell.net>
- Wednesday, December 31, 1997 at 10:55:07 (PST)

Great site! I love the section on labels!
Heidi
- Saturday, December 20, 1997 at 19:21:06 (PST)

very interesting, nice to see someone taking time to create such an indepth personal site. keep it up girl i'll be back for more. free speech,free love,free life.....can't beat it!
Dave in the U.K.
- Tuesday, November 18, 1997 at 14:11:05 (PST)

I just read your poetry... it is very touching. Thank you for sharing so much of your inner self. ciao, mia @>->---
mia <mia@proaxis.com>
- Sunday, November 09, 1997 at 20:37:10 (PST)

Hey, I visited your page after I saw your post on the SHS list. *Very* cool. One of the best things about the Web is that people are able to be open and honest, and your site is definitely both. Thanks.
Mary <wyninger@speakeasy.org>
- Saturday, November 08, 1997 at 01:11:09 (PST)

you've made such a sensitive place.
rosario
- Saturday, November 01, 1997 at 14:21:09 (PST)

I think that was the first time that I have seen an understanding of what it means to call yourself a pervert or kinky, of how liberating it can be.
Jeff <davis@azstarnet.com>
- Friday, August 22, 1997 at 23:05:50 (PDT)

Good job! Thanks for sharing!
maia <maia_@mindspring.com>
- Thursday, June 26, 1997 at 17:10:56 (PDT)

nice page, like the popup things never seen them before... I think after reading a little about BSD i'll try it, i was not very please w/ the linux that i tried to run before....bisexuality doesn't bother me, though i'm not...guess that makes me the most current entry.. Found this page through the behind the scenes on "the site", which i recently saw about an hour ago <2:10 am now>...guess that's it, write me if u want 2..Vaya con Dios.. -God-
Lord Godthe1st <god19@mail.idt.net>
- Saturday, June 21, 1997 at 00:17:59 (PDT)

I love your poetry. The page is also very nice as well. It is nice that another poet is posting on the net. If you have a chance check out my site, because I have my poems on there are will. Just choose: "Book of Poetry". Ours in the elcronic words, Richard
Richard Iorio II <RI2d2@aol.com>
- Wednesday, June 18, 1997 at 10:57:12 (PDT)

Nice pages! I'm just poking around. Boy, some of these comments are pretty silly. Like this one. :) I wanted to see if this works. :)
Alex Yan <flare@serv.net>
- Friday, June 06, 1997 at 17:45:00 (PDT)

The poetry is brilliant. Thank you.
Chmeee <chmeee.an@edtec.com>
- Monday, June 02, 1997 at 17:06:46 (PDT)

Great site! I have read alot of your posts in soc.bi and they are really intelligent! I as well am bi, and can relate to alot of the stuff you talk about in here! Keep it up girl! Luvs
Tracey <mysterygirl@usa.net>
- Saturday, April 26, 1997 at 16:41:29 (PDT)

Nice home page!!!! Free speech is important. It's our right! Just surfing. From Stayner,ontario Canada. see yaa
DAVID MCLEAN <dmclean@bconnex.net>
- Wednesday, February 05, 1997 at 10:59:53 (PST)

wow! very interesting... Vicki Kelliebrew
Vicki Kelliebrew <vkellieb@epri.com>
- Tuesday, January 21, 1997 at 11:40:57 (PST)

I am so proud of you!
Mom <juanita@marimba.com>
- Friday, January 10, 1997 at 17:20:54 (PST)

U are a nice girl with a good homepage... I am trying to get miine done by the end of the yr. I just browse around and get to see ur homepage and I think is quite good....
Benjamin Tan <xbenx@singnet.com.sg>
- Wednesday, November 20, 1996 at 22:58:19 (PST)

Gee, now I'm embarassed...you get lotsa people telling you you're cute!
Gwen <mirth@mcs.com>
- Wednesday, November 20, 1996 at 13:28:57 (PST)

Hi there, I was just surfin the web and found a fellow Oregon. Thought that I'd say hello. The World needs more people like you. Take care
Mike Klein <mike.w.klein@usace.army.mil>
- Friday, November 01, 1996 at 12:34:26 (PST)

Like, yer totally hot and bi and stuff. Can I do you and your girlfriend????!!!!! I'm a nice guy. Really I am.
Phrantic in Philly <hng@luser.net>
- Friday, October 25, 1996 at 11:46:37 (PDT)

whoa nelly, a bridge between polymedia!
May your elvistoenails never lose their potency.
Boko-maru to you.
Rev. Bokonon, Episkopos, San Lorenzo Entropic Maximum <bokonon@iquest.com>
- Wednesday, October 23, 1996 at 10:06:38 (PDT)

Hello, Ms. Sev, I, er, found this web site randomly and do not know you. You are a complete stranger and I have never heard of you until now. I think this web site is the best web site in the whole wide world, and I am not saying this from a biased posistion. Rock on, ya kinky groovy thang *grin* love, Marrk ;)
Marrk <marrk@total.net>
- Saturday, October 19, 1996 at 02:40:49 (PDT)

foo. fwibble. totsiens.
Dossy <dossy@remus.rutgers.edu>
- Saturday, October 12, 1996 at 22:20:27 (PDT)

I just found you through the Kinky Women Page and want very much to be respectful and cautious. I do not wish to lose an opportunity to meet and/or talk with intelligent strong Women. I hope that my gender will not keep me from these pages. (your motto is "for kinky women AND THOSE WHO LOVE THEM" so i hope i qualify. I am an older man, who had a wonderful though all too short relationsip with a Woman "Master" and would love to renew for find another relationship like that one. I do not wish to ramble here, so will sign off now. God Bless You.
Jay <oldjay.ix@netcom.com>
- Monday, May 27, 1996 at 15:49:44 (PDT)

Just getting started at this internet stuff and found your page. Like the picture... I am in southern california near Disneyland. How is it going?
Skipper <Seepe01@ssw.alcoa.com>
- Monday, May 27, 1996 at 13:52:58 (PDT)